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Making the move from the U.S. to London has been one of the most exciting (and slightly overwhelming) adventures of my life. Navigating this transition has brought unique joys and challenges, and I’m here to share my insights to make your move smoother. If you’re thinking about making the leap, here are the top 10 things you need to know:
Before you pack your bags, make sure you’ve got your visa situation sorted. Whether it’s a work visa, spouse visa, or a student visa, the process can be lengthy and expensive. Plan in advance! Pro tip: Stay organized and start early. UK Visas and Immigration is a good place to begin your research. The paperwork is confusing so make sure you have time to review. If you’re bringing a dog, I have a whole post about that process here.
Finding a place to live in London can be tricky. Rent is high, space is limited, and the market moves fast. Websites like Rightmove and Zoopla are your best friends. I checked and had (4) properties I loved go off market before I could see them. It happens, don’t get discouraged and keep looking. There’s no need to settle, the best option for you, will find you. Keep in mind that neighborhoods like Brixton, Peckham, and Hackney have vibrant Black communities and lots of culture but there are tons of places to live and the tube will help you get around with ease. Pro-tip: Spend time in neighborhoods before you move. I went to a few neighborhoods over the summer and found one I really loved.
London is expensive, full stop but it’s a major city so that’s to be expected. While groceries can be cheaper than in the U.S., salaries also tend to be lower, which can make budgeting a challenge. I also learned that most places only pay once per month. From transportation to dining out, everything adds up quickly but you can definitely live a fulfilling life. Take time to understand what your monthly expenses will look like and prioritize accordingly. For transport, an Oyster card or contactless payment will be your go-to.
Londoners are generally polite but reserved, and getting used to the culture—from queuing (lines) to tea time—might take a minute. Don’t take the quietness personally; it’s just part of the vibe. In general, Americans can be way more forward and blunt so think about how you come across if you tend to have a more intense conversation style. I’m being myself just also staying aware that I’m not in America.
Let’s talk weather: It’s sometimes gray. It’s often rainy. It’s unpredictable. Not all bad because the temperatures are way more mild than Chicago but don’t expect sunny warm weather every day. Invest in a good umbrella and waterproof coat because you’ll use them often. The upside? London’s spring and summer can be gorgeous—think sunny days in Hyde Park or along the Thames. Also note there is likely not going to be air conditioning in your home here so prepare to get tons of fans.
If you’re used to walking into any beauty supply store and finding what you need, London’s options might surprise you, you can probably find what you need with ease. Honestly Boots has some great brands and I can find everything I need pretty easily but of course if you’re looking for something specific bring it with you. Looking for a hairstylist will take time but plan to travel or research the options in your neighborhood as you decide. I don’t do my own hair (no patience) so this will be something I’ll sort out over the next few months but if you do, then you’re lucky.
London’s food scene is top-notch. From Afro-Caribbean restaurants in Brixton to Indian cuisine on Brick Lane, there’s so much to explore. Grocery shopping is different, though—American staples like grits or certain spices might be harder to find. Thank goodness for Amazon and specialty shops! I also have family members bring anything I need when they come visit. I miss Trader Joes but M&S (Marks & Spencer Food) definitely fills the hole.
The NHS is a blessing, but it’s different from what you might be used to in the U.S. Register with a local GP (general practitioner) as soon as you’ve moved. This is actually required as a part of your living arrangement so this may also be something you need to look into as you think about which area you want to live in. While healthcare is free at the point of use, services can be slower than in the U.S. If you come with your job then you may also have access to private healthcare which is also SO much more affordable than in the United States.
London is incredibly diverse, and there are spaces specifically for Black women. You will find your tribe! From social groups to wellness events, you’ll find people who understand your journey. Community is also such a big part of life here and one of the things I love most about London. Don’t be afraid to join your local run club, ask friends and family for recommendations and connect with colleagues if you’re working in an office. If you love to workout, go to a studio regularly to make friends.
Living in London will push you out of your comfort zone in the best ways. You’ll become more independent, adaptable, and global-minded. The city’s energy is contagious, and it’s a place where you can truly reinvent yourself. I also believe London is a great place to raise a family if you’re looking for a mix of city and suburban life. There are so many green spaces, much more strict gun laws and overall the culture feels super family friendly.
Moving from the U.S. to London is a big step, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and discovery. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the wins, and enjoy the journey. If you’re a fellow Black woman planning to make the move or already here, let’s connect—we’re all in this together!